Five Tips for Being More Confident


Confidence can go a long way in both your personal and professional life. Being unsure of yourself and your abilities can hinder your relationships, job growth potential and what you see when you look in the mirror each day. Boost your confidence with these five tips, and you’ll quickly be on the road to success.

  1. Think Positively

If you’re constantly telling yourself that you can’t do something or  shouldn’t bother trying, you’re going to start to believe it. Often, the biggest thing standing in your way is you.

But this is an easy fix — just change your tone. Instead of filling your internal monologue with negative words such as can’t, shouldn’t and never, be encouraging. Think of what you’d say to your best friend and build yourself up with that “can do” attitude!

  1. Try Something New

While it might be intimidating to take on something you’ve never done before, it can also be a great confidence booster — especially if you happen to excel at whatever it is you’re trying. If you loved art in high school, try a beginner’s painting class. If you’ve always liked team sports, join an adult kickball league. By getting out of your comfort zone and meeting new people, you’ll slowly build your confidence while picking up a new skill along the way.

  1. Look Your Best

Sometimes you have to fake it till you make it. If you look good on the outside, chances are you’ll start to feel pretty good on the inside, too.

Get a new haircut or break out that statement necklace that you’ve been shying away from. When you put your best face forward, you’re leading with confidence. You’ll have the gusto to take on whatever life throws your way.

  1. Say Hello

Confidence and an outgoing personality often go hand-in-hand. Even if you’re an introvert by nature, you can boost your confidence by being more approachable.

Smile at strangers, say hello to an unfamiliar face by the coffee machine in the office or strike up a conversation with a co-worker in the elevator. By being more social in these everyday situations, you’ll build up your self-assurance and maybe even make a new friend or two in the process.

  1. Contribute to Conversations

It can be intimidating to chime in at work meetings when you’re unsure of yourself and your abilities. Keep in mind you were invited to sit at the table with your co-workers for a reason.

Share your thoughts and ideas for new and existing projects. Don’t be afraid to draw on previous successes to demonstrate your credibility. The more you contribute to the conversation, the easier it will be to believe you’re a rock star at work.

Confidence is a must when you’re trying to get your dream job. Get tips on how to succeed in your next interview from a Decton Staffing Specialist today!